Never give out your password or credit card number in an instant message conversation. ANDREW says: whos this? Suicide Snowman says: simon... in case you forgot Suicide Snowman says: hello Suicide Snowman says: how r u? ANDREW says: hi soz i dnt recognise you from the id name . youve changed your name ANDREW says: im cool ANDREW says: u? Suicide Snowman says: it changes with the weather Suicide Snowman says: unemployed... still. ANDREW says: i just got a raise and a new department area too Suicide Snowman says: cool. u still at asda then? ANDREW says: TESCO!!!!! ANDREW says: not asda Suicide Snowman says: sorry, i have had the worst time with memory at the moment ANDREW says: u ok? i mean Suicide Snowman says: im fine, a little depressed, but fine ANDREW says: whot actually happened between us, i mean why did you turn soo "harsh" over the txt msg!? Suicide Snowman says: hmmm... Suicide Snowman says: i was paranoid Suicide Snowman says: and sick ANDREW says: with me? Suicide Snowman says: it seemed like i was doing all the work when we were together Suicide Snowman says: and since i never saw you, i got paranoid ANDREW says: well to a sence u were ANDREW says: imean i didnt really know whot you wanted and im sure you didnt either Suicide Snowman says: well, you could have gone with the basics, and then improvise, like i tend to ANDREW says: mmmmmm ANDREW says: iwas just trying not to be a dick but then in the middle of our relationship i fell ill, ANDREW says: i mean really ill i lost 1 stone in a week!!!! ANDREW says: i was not a well bunny!!! Suicide Snowman says: you could have let me come and see you or sumthing Suicide Snowman says: i would have done the supportive boyfriend bit ANDREW says: hmmm i know you would of done that if id given you the chance, ANDREW says: but ANDREW says: i couldnt Suicide Snowman says: chicken soup and everything Suicide Snowman says: why couldnt you? ANDREW says: cos i dnt like my parents and immediate family knowing about you at the time ANDREW says: its sort of fiddly Suicide Snowman says: we had alreay been an item for several months... Suicide Snowman says: were you embarassed? Suicide Snowman says: or are you really out to ur family? ANDREW says: oh my family know im gay its just were not as open to it as ur family is, thats probably why you dnt understand Suicide Snowman says: so you can be gay, but not have a partner? ANDREW says: no ANDREW says: i can be gay but its best that my p's dont know about him too soon, cos there wiould be 20 in all after ne thing i do and i dnt like that! Suicide Snowman says: well, tell them its your business, and every family does the tewnty questions after meeting a new partner ANDREW says: yes but theve never met one of my boyfriends before Suicide Snowman says: theres a first for everything ANDREW says: but i dint want to start just then Suicide Snowman says: that was one thing that really hurt, u no ANDREW says: sorry ANDREW says: thats all i can say ANDREW says: words dont heal the past they merely comment on it Suicide Snowman says: i mean, that, along with other things, made me feel unwanted, hence i turned nasty ANDREW says: what can i say u didnt want us to go on together so you called it off, i cant bully you into a relationship so i obliged ANDREW says: imust admit i did miss you no being there. Suicide Snowman says: the thing was, it didnt feel like a relationship towards the end, so i started losing trust ANDREW says: again its was purely on your side Suicide Snowman says: what??? Suicide Snowman says: a string of text messages does not a relationship make! ANDREW says: yes i agree but at the time that was part of all i could offer you Suicide Snowman says: i could use sarcasm here, or *gasp* irony, but that would be a waste of time Suicide Snowman says: its in the past ANDREW says: yup it is Suicide Snowman says: i dont hold grudges, but i have a long memory ANDREW says: look im sorry but youre gonna have to continue theis l8er my mom wants to use the phone line so about midnight then is it thats wen im back online Suicide Snowman says: oies... Suicide Snowman says: ill probs cya l8r then