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Midieval Fantasy
Manisha
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 The Breastmilk Babydoll?
I just heard about this on my local news station and wanted to know everyone's ideas about this. Apparently there is a baby doll for little girls that teaches small girls how to breastfeed a baby. It even comes with a cloth that has a flower over the place where the little girl's nipple should go. ArticleBlogVideoThere are also videos on youtube of people's two year old daughters using the doll, but I feel a little sick by it and refuse to watch it. My own opinion, though. Now, I am all for breast feeding if that is the route a mother wants to go, however I kind of feel like this is pushing it onto little girls- and much to quickly. Your opinions?
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| Thu Mar 24, 2011 6:42 pm |
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Chromesthesia
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
I don't know. Breast feeding is totally natural and all, nothing to fear. It's good for teaching folks, kids that it's ok. and kids will try to pretend they are doing that anyway if they see their mothers do it.
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| Thu Mar 24, 2011 6:53 pm |
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Nephele
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
Breast feeding is a perfectly natural function -- for mature women. Aren't we pushing maturity on little girls a bit much these days?
-- Nephele
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| Thu Mar 24, 2011 7:00 pm |
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Midieval Fantasy
Manisha
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
Nephele wrote: Breast feeding is a perfectly natural function -- for mature women. Aren't we pushing maturity on little girls a bit much these days?
-- Nephele That is what I fear about it. I would not want my 5 year old putting a doll to her breast (espeically in public!). She is just to young to be doing that. Yes it IS a natural process and I support it- for women who want to breastfeed their kids. Not for little 2-9 year old girls who are very impressionable. Also the idea of taking the doll in public or having company over and my daughter having a doll at her breasts with little flowers that put emphasis on her nipples. It makes me shiver. If you want to teach them breastfeeding, teach them when they are truly old enough and mature enough to learn about. Otherwise i see it as making them grow up much to quickly. It is one thing to play with dolls and have little bottles. It is another thing when you have your baby taking her shirt off to feed a baby (exaggeration, but you get the picture).
_________________ "May I have the Enlightenment of Buddha, the Peace of Gandhi, the Balance of Loazi, the Confidence of Hypatia, the Logic of Dawkins, and the Science of Sagan to guide me in all things." -Midi
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| Thu Mar 24, 2011 7:09 pm |
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Nephele
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
I don't get it now, and I don't think I would've gotten it as a child. When I was a little kid, I played with plastic dinosaurs.
-- Nephele
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| Thu Mar 24, 2011 7:30 pm |
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Midieval Fantasy
Manisha
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
Nephele wrote: I don't get it now, and I don't think I would've gotten it as a child. When I was a little kid, I played with plastic dinosaurs.
-- Nephele You mean you never put the dinos to your breast to feed it, Nephele? for shame!
_________________ "May I have the Enlightenment of Buddha, the Peace of Gandhi, the Balance of Loazi, the Confidence of Hypatia, the Logic of Dawkins, and the Science of Sagan to guide me in all things." -Midi
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| Thu Mar 24, 2011 7:33 pm |
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Arquinsiel
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Joined: January 2008 Posts: 3032 Location: Dublin Gender:
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
Actually if you pay attention to how kids hold stuff they tend to do so in exactly the same way a mother would hold a nursing child.
Why?
Well that's who they see holding a baby most often. As great and all as school is for teaching people things, the best way to teach is to just do stuff in front of a person when they're too young to know what the hell they're watching.
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| Thu Mar 24, 2011 8:09 pm |
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Nephele
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
Midieval Fantasy wrote: Nephele wrote: I don't get it now, and I don't think I would've gotten it as a child. When I was a little kid, I played with plastic dinosaurs.
-- Nephele You mean you never put the dinos to your breast to feed it, Nephele? for shame! Sometimes my dinosaurs ATE their babies. -- Nephele
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| Fri Mar 25, 2011 2:45 am |
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Calliope Aisha Cassandra
Cania
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
Arquinsiel wrote: Actually if you pay attention to how kids hold stuff they tend to do so in exactly the same way a mother would hold a nursing child.
Why?
Well that's who they see holding a baby most often. As great and all as school is for teaching people things, the best way to teach is to just do stuff in front of a person when they're too young to know what the hell they're watching. I think it's an instict girls already have, and I would also point out girls usually get presents they want and don't play with stuff they got which they didn't want. I personally don't see a problem. Maybe Italy is still very connected to tradition, but over here girls do that with any kind of doll they come across. What I feel like adding is that it's not really a matter of choice, not for everybody at least, some women who may want to breastmilk simply can't because of health situations that could harm them or their baby. I think as Nephele mentioned before it's one of the most natural things in the world and it shouldn't be a matter of discussion. Still, I understand that in the male oriented society we live in, something bearing the tag FEMMININE in capital letters, might be ostracized by women in career.
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| Fri Mar 25, 2011 3:14 am |
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Nephele
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
Calliope Aisha Cassandra wrote: I think it's an instict girls already have, and I would also point out girls usually get presents they want and don't play with stuff they got which they didn't want. I personally don't see a problem. Maybe Italy is still very connected to tradition, but over here girls do that with any kind of doll they come across. I've seen little girls hold their dollies that way here in the U.S., too. Toys that promote IMAGINATION get two thumbs up from me. I just don't know about these toys they're making for little girls that have to realistically simulate every bodily function. Like that fashion doll they were selling a few years ago that, when you did something to her arms, her breasts suddenly grew out. -- Nephele
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| Fri Mar 25, 2011 5:05 am |
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Calliope Aisha Cassandra
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
THAT is disturbing -.-" !
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Minnie's virtual daughter and SirVigil's sister
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| Fri Mar 25, 2011 5:17 am |
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Nephele
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
Calliope Aisha Cassandra wrote: THAT is disturbing -.-" ! Yah, I'll say. I found a video of it: Growing Up Skipper-- Nephele
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| Fri Mar 25, 2011 5:32 am |
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BlueRose
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
I'm going to have to side with Midieval Fantasy; There is too much pressure on girls these days. It seems like so many of these coporations are trying to make girls grow up too fast(They're making bikinis for them now. I know some girls hit puberty early. I did; but that's just bordering on child porn now). Let them be little girls until they hit puberty. It's going to be stressful enough when they hit that age and people wonder why girls tend to have much more low self esteem then boys. 
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| Fri Mar 25, 2011 5:44 am |
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Calliope Aisha Cassandra
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
eeehm... actually bikinis for girls already existed as I was a little child (beginning 1980es) and I know they did because I was ashamed of walking around without the top part, it didn't matter if my parents tried to show me the difference between me and grown up women, I still felt as a little woman I should stick to my sense of decency, plus it was important for me to feel the difference from boys and the little decorations on the lower part didn't make enough of a difference for me...
edited to add: my parents really put a lot of effort in persuading me that I had time to feel like that, but it didn't work, whereas other girls didn't get why I remained adamant about it.
_________________ Pixie name: Antara Airië Milkmaid
Minnie's virtual daughter and SirVigil's sister
adopted by Minnie and Midi and "honorary Texan" as bestowed upon me by Agent B. Plus I have a demon
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| Fri Mar 25, 2011 6:50 am |
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Minty
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Joined: April 2009 Posts: 1844 Location: Joie de l'Eau, Maice Isle, Gothsylvania, otherwise Blackheath, London, UK Gender:
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 Re: The Breastmilk Babydoll?
Nephele wrote: Breast feeding is a perfectly natural function -- for mature women. Aren't we pushing maturity on little girls a bit much these days?
-- Nephele This 100%... kids have enough trouble getting the chance to be kids these days as it is. Why some people feel the need to make kids grow up before their time I have no idea! 
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| Fri Mar 25, 2011 6:55 am |
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