my stupidity has gotten the best of me. How do u upload pics to this site so when i talk u see it kinda like an avatar?
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If you want to use a picture of your own as an avatar, you're going to have to host it yourself on free webspace/picture hosting site that allows direct/hot linking (geocities and angelfire for example do not).
Photobucket and Snapfish are two picture hosting sites that are pretty good/well-known.
After you have a picture hosting account, such as Photobucket, then you upload your picture there (64x64 pixels only, so please edit larger images down to size, or ask someone with a graphics program to do it for you). Once your picture is up on your image hosting account, you go into the "Your Control Panel" section that's at the top of the forum here, and then to "Personal Info" and then to "Avatar Options". At the bottom of the "Avatar Options" field is a bar where you can fill in the link to your avatar (http://www.photobucket.com/yourimagefile+extension
here) and away you go.
Alternatively you can pick an icon from the existing GN selection in the mean time.